Everyone can't live without him/her or them. Friends, as the proverb says, are angles, but when these angles are born without wings, we call them friends. And this is completely right.
We all have friends, we like them, we love them, we feel comfortable talking to them, tell them our problems, our secrets, or thoughts, our plans, our feelings, etc. Its the soul that has a different essence, taste, and odor than our parents, our brothers & sisters, and maybe our cosins. We like them, and we like spending time with them.
We know them from our childhood, from our kindergarden, elementary school, highschool, or college; A minority is found during our career life. But the rule says that the older you know a friend, the closer you feel to him/her, the better the relation.
We either have played in the fields, spotted out T-shirts with mud, climbed the trees, picked the flowers, played hide & seak, or gathered around a newly bought battery car and were astonished by its behaviour. In that case, we know their history, their background, their parents, their way of thinking and we got used to dealing with them whatever the situation, wherever the place, whichever the time.
Nowadays, we are starting to witness a changing in the way people do frienships. They are trying to increase the database of their friends' list using the advanced technology methods like msn, yahoo, facebook, blogging, etc. I don't oppose such ways of communication, but sometimes the way and the style these ways are implemented may destruct the newly born relation or maybe the cause and aim and the intention of the person we are seeking differs and thus the outcome.
On a personal level, I have passed through both experiences. I found verygood friends who l like and satisfied with them as firends, and other came and left with or without a trace, it doesnt matter.
For those who I knew through the internet, I tell them stay in touch, for those who left I dont mind the effort to say a word.
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We all have friends, we like them, we love them, we feel comfortable talking to them, tell them our problems, our secrets, or thoughts, our plans, our feelings, etc. Its the soul that has a different essence, taste, and odor than our parents, our brothers & sisters, and maybe our cosins. We like them, and we like spending time with them.
We know them from our childhood, from our kindergarden, elementary school, highschool, or college; A minority is found during our career life. But the rule says that the older you know a friend, the closer you feel to him/her, the better the relation.
We either have played in the fields, spotted out T-shirts with mud, climbed the trees, picked the flowers, played hide & seak, or gathered around a newly bought battery car and were astonished by its behaviour. In that case, we know their history, their background, their parents, their way of thinking and we got used to dealing with them whatever the situation, wherever the place, whichever the time.
Nowadays, we are starting to witness a changing in the way people do frienships. They are trying to increase the database of their friends' list using the advanced technology methods like msn, yahoo, facebook, blogging, etc. I don't oppose such ways of communication, but sometimes the way and the style these ways are implemented may destruct the newly born relation or maybe the cause and aim and the intention of the person we are seeking differs and thus the outcome.
On a personal level, I have passed through both experiences. I found verygood friends who l like and satisfied with them as firends, and other came and left with or without a trace, it doesnt matter.
For those who I knew through the internet, I tell them stay in touch, for those who left I dont mind the effort to say a word.
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